There are quite a few different ways to measure how good a song is. One is, when it comes up on the radio, how quickly do you reach for the volume button to crank it up? How happy does it make you to sing along? How many layers of emotion it manages to trigger?
The TenCC original delivers top scores on all these fronts. It's one I had bonded with as a youngster as well, and nostalgia is certainly one powerful player in how we relate to music. It makes you easily forgive overused synth and corny lines like "big boys don't cry".
But another way to measure how good a song is:
Strip it down to its basics. Melody, lyrics, chords... a simple accompaniment. Does the song still stand up strong? And again, "I'm not in love" stands proud. Janet's rendition is proof. Diana Krall's starts off like another attempt to do the same, just the piano and her, and I couldn't help wishing she had kept it that way. I didn't need the orchestration to sip in.
The other song though, that's a little fireplacey jazz treasure! Love it. Taking it right over nexdoors for winter nights.
Regardining Chrissie Hynde, I've just caught the back end of a recent documentary with her, and she came across fun and down to earth, .... and a real hermit! See if I can find it, I always meant to go back to it and watch the whole thing.